If you are thinking about ending your marriage, or are currently in the divorce process, the most important thing you need to do is accept responsibility for the outcome of your divorce. Because a woman's standard of living generally drops at least 30% after a divorce, the decisions that you make now can have a considerable effect on your future.
It is wise to establish a plan of action instead of going into your divorce blindly. Begin by being well informed and organized with the Divorce Record Keeper, a comprehensive divorce considerations help guide. This resource will enable you to keep track and record everything about your divorce from start to finish in a easy to reference fashion.
If it is inevitable that your marriage will end, utilize the following divorce considerations to protect yourself. Most importantly, if your spouse has initiated proceedings, do not sign anything until you are represented and informed by a lawyer. Also, do not use the same lawyer that is representing your spouse. Retain your own attorney to level the playing field and have fair representation.
Divorce Considerations on Money: Consider consulting a certified financial planner that is skilled in divorce proceedings. They can help prepare you financially before your start your divorce, and point out areas of your settlement that will have repercussions in the future. Keep the following suggestions in mind as you think about divorce:
Divorce Considerations on Support:
Divorce Considerations on Insurance: Before you divorce, get any medical or dental check ups done while you are still covered on your spouses insurance.
Divorce Considerations on Retirement and Social Security:
Divorce Considerations on Property and Assets: Consider the tax implications of any property received in the settlement. Some property and assets are subject to a capital gains tax of up to 40% when sold. Consult a certified financial planner on the division of assets and holdings.
Divorce Considerations on Taxes and Liens:
Divorce Considerations on Documents and Records: It is important to have copies of all records and accounts, since they have a way of disappearing once proceedings have begun. With copies, you have all the relevant information that you will need in the future.
Certificates of Deposit
Home Equity Loans
Credit Card Accounts
|Tax returns - last 5 years
6 months of pay stubs
401 K plan
Wills and Trusts
Safe Deposit Box
Purchase Price of Home
While divorce is a very emotional time, you need to approach it like a business deal and take control of the proceedings. Don't cave in because you feel overwhelmed.
At WomansDivorce.com we have one focus - helping women survive divorce and rebuild their lives. This article may be freely reproduced provided it is unaltered and the above information is included.
In the following articles you'll find some guidance in such divorce considerations as finding a lawyer, making your separation legal, preparing financially, and getting your divorce papers in order. While you may feel shaky now, taking control of your divorce will make you a stronger
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Remember, legal information is not legal advice. Please consult a lawyer for specific advice on divorce considerations.
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